From time to time, i get really low lows and what I usually do, I lock myself up in the room and write about it. Sometimes I even switch on the webcam and video document what I feel at that exact moment and try to analyze the reasons behind it. It’s a healthy approach I find and it works for me personally.
Everyone gets mood swings there’s no denying that. And I understand that it’s something most people have no control over. What I don’t understand is their need to show it to the rest of the world in hope of getting sympathy and their feelings acknowledged. It seriously pisses me off. i mean why? Why do they have to give others who has nothing to do with their shitty mood the evil look and nastiness? Get over it already. if they want to feel sorry for themselves, i suggest doing it elsewhere, somewhere nobody can see them cuz’ it is just plain pathetic.
And what else it is, is infectious. Do you realize that? Someone projects hostility and negativity, you can’t help but get into the same mood as them. I’ve experienced this and have actually seen this happen to a group of friends. By the end of the day, everyone surrounding this person turns all nasty for no real reason and all hell breaks loose.
I actually know a particular person who gets mood swings over the silliest things. Like the time price of petrol went up by 0.02 cents. And this person has the stupidity to invite people out just so he/she could show their anger. Crazy much? And I’ve been stuck with this person during his/her episodes quite a number of times.
So what do I do to deal with people like these now? Simply ignore them. Don’t acknowledge their feelings and eventually they’ll get bored. If you want to talk to me about shit, by all means, I’m all ears. But if you want to be a bitch and bring me down with you, get the fuck away and look for someone else who cares.